How to maintain a healthy relationship

Ugwu Arinze Christopher
2 min readDec 26, 2020
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I recently stumbled on a thought, which lingered for a while, as it continued to yarn for an answer. It is particularly one that concerns our personality and it indeed poses a question. When stripped bare to the core of the flesh that houses our souls and spirits, can we still be recognized? If by chance you don’t understand it, don’t worry, I also struggled at first to grasp it. However, I will try to elicit an explanation to the best of my ability.

As we pass through time, we make an acquaintance of various people. Some get to stick around for a while, before fading into the shadows. While some others remain there through thick and thin. It is indeed the memories that these people create with us that tend to evoke various emotion and fondness whenever we think of them.

The soul has no race or gender. It is pure transformational energy.

In an attempt to answer the question, I could only assume the above quote is pertinent to this discussion. Energy! that’s the word. It can only be that the flesh gives a form and face to this energy. Which explains the reason why an emotion can be evoked when you remember someone and go down the memory lane paved by the energy rubbed off on you by the person. So yes, the energy is what really gives us an identity I suppose. It is what makes one endearing or not.

Now, having had a tête-à-tête with my thought. I can only say that it is needful to try and be aware of the energy I transmit and rub off on others, because it creates memories, sometimes lasting ones, which can give an identity, when I am not there. While I keep a check on MEnergy, keep a check on YourEnergy, so we can continue to create beautiful memories.

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Ugwu Arinze Christopher

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